A mixing model derived from first principles describes the bulk density ( BD) of intertidal wetland sediments as a function of loss on ignition ( LOI). The model assumes that the bulk volume of sediment equates to the sum of self‐packing volumes of organic and mineral components or BD = 1/[ LOI/ k 1 + (1‐ LOI)/ k 2 ], where k 1 and k 2 are the self‐packing densities of the pure organic and inorganic components, respectively. The model explained 78% of the variability in total BD when fitted to 5075 measurements drawn from 33 wetlands distributed around the conterminous United States. The values of k 1 and k 2 were estimated to be 0.085 ± 0.0007 g cm −3 and 1.99 ± 0.028 g cm −3, respectively. Based on the fitted organic density ( k 1 ) and constrained by primary production, the model suggests that the maximum steady state accretion arising from the sequestration of refractory organic matter is ≤ 0.3 cm yr −1. Thus, tidal peatlands are unlikely to indefinitely survive a higher rate of sea‐level rise in the absence of a significant source of mineral sediment. Application of k 2 to a mineral sediment load typical of East and eastern Gulf Coast estuaries gives a vertical accretion rate from inorganic sediment of 0.2 cm yr −1. Total steady state accretion is the sum of the parts and therefore should not be greater than 0.5 cm yr −1 under the assumptions of the model. Accretion rates could deviate from this value depending on variation in plant productivity, root:shoot ratio, suspended sediment concentration, sediment‐capture efficiency, and episodic events.